Parents and grandparents often feel the weight of the world on their shoulders, trying to balance their responsibilities and guide their children and grandchildren in a godly way. As KidMin leaders, we have a unique opportunity to encourage and uplift them. Your words of life can make all the difference in their lives. Remember, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue" (Proverbs 18:21).

Here are five ways to speak life into the parents and grandparents at your church:

1. Offer Words of Affirmation

Take time to acknowledge and praise the efforts of parents and grandparents. Let them know you see their hard work and dedication. Simple phrases like “You’re doing a great job” or “Your love for your family is evident” can boost their spirits and remind them of the impact they’re making.

2. Provide Practical Encouragement

Share practical advice and tips that can make their parenting or grandparenting journey a bit easier. Whether it’s a resource, a book recommendation, or just a listening ear, showing that you care about their day-to-day challenges can be incredibly uplifting.

3. Share Scripture and Prayer

Send them encouraging Bible verses and prayers. Remind them of God’s promises and His presence in their lives. A verse like Isaiah 41:10, “So do not fear, for I am with you,” can provide comfort and reassurance during tough times.

4. Create a Supportive Community

Foster a sense of community where parents and grandparents can share their struggles and victories. Organize small groups or coffee mornings where they can connect, share, and support one another. Knowing they are not alone can be incredibly empowering.

5. Celebrate Their Wins

Highlight and celebrate the successes and milestones of parents and grandparents. Whether it’s a child’s achievement or a personal breakthrough, take time to recognize and rejoice with them. Celebrating their wins reinforces their efforts and encourages them to keep going.

By speaking life into the parents and grandparents at your church, you can help them feel seen, valued, and supported. Your words have the power to inspire and uplift, making a lasting impact on their lives and their families. Let's use our tongues to build up and encourage, creating a nurturing and loving community for all.

Ryan Frank is a pastor, publisher, and entrepreneur. He and his wife Beth are the founders of KidzMatter.