As children’s ministry leaders, we want every child to feel safe, welcome, and loved when they walk through our doors. You may have heard the term “sensory friendly” and even started using it to describe your programs or environments. But what does it really mean in the context of kids’ ministry—and how can we put it into action?

At its core, “sensory friendly” means creating an environment that is more comfortable and accessible for children who may be sensitive to sensory input. That could include kids with autism, sensory processing disorders, anxiety, or trauma backgrounds—and honestly, it can benefit every child.

So, what does a sensory-friendly ministry space look like?

1. Lower the Volume

If your worship time includes upbeat music with drums and guitars, that’s awesome! Just keep in mind that for some kids, loud noises can feel overwhelming. Consider lowering the volume slightly compared to a typical adult service, or offer child-sized noise-reducing headphones. These simple changes can help kids stay engaged without feeling overstimulated.

2. Soften the Lighting

Lighting can have a big impact on how kids feel in a space. Harsh lights, especially strobe or flashing lights, can trigger sensory overload. Instead, choose warmer tones like soft yellow, amber, or orange for stage or room lighting. Avoid bright blues or anything that flickers. And keep a few house lights on so kids can see where they’re going—it helps everyone feel more secure.

3. Foster a Sensory-Friendly Atmosphere

Sensory-friendly ministry isn’t just about light and sound—it’s about creating a culture of compassion. Let families know it’s okay if worship looks a little different for their child. Maybe they need to move, twirl, or even vocalize during music time. That’s okay! Make it clear that your children’s ministry is a place where kids can be themselves and still fully participate in learning about God’s love.

Set expectations with your team and volunteers that this is a judgment-free zone. We’re not here to “shush” kids—we’re here to shepherd them. Every child is made in God’s image and designed to worship Him, even if it doesn’t look like a quiet row of still bodies.

4. Think Beyond Diagnoses

Yes, these adjustments support kids with specific diagnoses like autism or sensory processing challenges—but they benefit all kids. A calmer, more inclusive space helps every child focus, connect, and grow in their faith.

As leaders, we set the tone. When we take steps to make our ministry spaces sensory-friendly, we’re doing more than modifying our environments—we’re showing families that their children are truly welcome just as they are.

Let’s create spaces where all children can encounter the love of Jesus in a way that feels safe and meaningful to them.

Beth Golik is the Ministry Director for Key Ministry, an organization that equips churches to welcome individuals and families affected by disability, particularly hidden disabilities. Visit keyministry.org to schedule a free consultation.