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Stop Fighting the Wiggles: Better Bible Stories for Preschoolers

Monday, August 17, 2026

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You planned the Bible story. You gathered the supplies. You practiced the lesson. You even found the perfect picture to show at just the right moment. Then you invite a group of preschoolers to sit down.

Thirty seconds later, one kid is lying on the floor. Another is touching the kid next to him. Someone has discovered the Velcro on their shoes. One kid has turned completely around and appears to be listening to something happening on the other side of the room. And another has simply stood up.

“Okay, friends. Let’s sit down. Crisscross applesauce. Hands in your lap. Eyes on me. Remember, we’re listening to the Bible story.”

For approximately seven seconds, order is restored. Then someone notices the Velcro again.

This always seems to happen. And when it does, it's easy to assume something has gone wrong. They aren't listening. They aren't paying attention. Maybe I need better classroom management. Maybe I’m just not cut out for this.

But what if the problem isn't that preschoolers are bad at listening? What if we're asking preschoolers to learn in a way they weren't designed to learn?

Preschoolers Were Made to Move

Preschoolers move. They wiggle. They touch things. They crawl. They jump. They spin around. They get up for reasons known only to themselves. Movement isn't an unfortunate side effect of being three years old. Movement is part of how preschoolers experience and understand the world around them.

Think about how a preschooler learns. They don't simply look at a block. They pick it up, stack it, knock it down, and build it again. They don't just watch a puddle. They jump in it. They don't simply hear that something is soft. They reach out and touch it. Preschoolers are active learners.

Yet sometimes when we arrive at Bible-story time, we suddenly expect them to stop being little. We ask them to sit still, keep their hands to themselves, look directly at the teacher, and quietly listen while an adult talks. Then we become frustrated when they struggle to do it.

Stillness Is Not the Same as Engagement

One of the biggest mistakes we can make in preschool ministry is assuming that a quiet kid is an engaged kid. Those aren't necessarily the same thing. A preschooler can sit perfectly still while thinking about snack. And another preschooler can roll around on the carpet while hearing every word you say.

Of course, we want to help kids learn to listen. Preschool classrooms have appropriate boundaries, and good classroom management matters. But the goal of Bible-story time isn't to produce a room full of quiet preschoolers. The goal is to help preschoolers encounter the truth of God's Word.

That means we need to stop using stillness as our primary measurement of success. Instead of constantly fighting preschoolers' desire to move, what if we used it?

Put Movement Into the Story

The Bible is full of movement. God's people marched around Jericho. David swung a sling. The disciples rocked in a boat during a storm. Zacchaeus climbed a tree. A shepherd searched for a lost sheep. People walked, ran, danced, bowed, built, carried, climbed, celebrated, and followed.

So let the preschoolers do it.

If the Israelites are marching around Jericho, have everyone stand up and march. If you're telling about the storm Jesus calmed, let the kids rock from side to side like they're sitting in the boat. If Zacchaeus is climbing a tree, reach up and pretend to climb. If the shepherd is searching for his lost sheep, hide a toy sheep somewhere in the room and let everyone search.

Instead of letting movement interrupt, treat it as a valuable tool preschoolers need to engage with the gospel.

Give Them Something to Do

One of the simplest ways to improve preschool Bible storytelling is to move from asking, “How can I get them to listen?” to asking, “How can I help them participate?”

Give them a repeated phrase to say. Give them a motion to perform every time they hear a certain word. Let them make the sound of the wind. Ask them to pretend to be surprised. Give them something from the story to hold. Hide an object for them to find. Ask questions they can actually answer. Invite them to act out what is happening.

You don't need elaborate props or an expensive curriculum to make a Bible story interactive. Sometimes all it takes is stopping every minute or two and giving preschoolers something to do with what they are hearing. Participation brings their attention back to the story without requiring us to spend the entire lesson correcting them.

Movement Doesn't Mean Chaos

None of this means abandoning classroom management. We're not saying, “Just let everyone run around and hope somebody hears about Jesus.” Preschoolers need boundaries. They need loving leaders who help them understand what is safe, kind, and appropriate.

But there's a difference between creating healthy boundaries and expecting developmentally unrealistic behavior. Sometimes the best classroom-management strategy isn't another rule. It's better engagement.

If we spend the entire Bible story saying, “Sit down,” “Stop touching,” and “Look at me,” those corrections can eventually become the loudest message in the room. Instead, we can create Bible-story experiences where preschoolers know there will be moments to listen and moments to move.

Redefine the Win

Maybe we need a different picture of a successful preschool Bible story. Success isn't twenty preschoolers sitting perfectly still for fifteen minutes. Success might look a little louder than that.

It might include marching feet, kids making animal noises, or a three-year-old shouting the repeated phrase before you even ask. It might include a kid who appears distracted suddenly answering a question that reveals they were listening the entire time.

The goal isn't to make preschoolers behave like elementary kids so we can teach them the Bible. Our calling is to faithfully bring God's Word to them as preschoolers—with their curiosity, their short attention spans, their desire to touch everything, and yes, with all their wiggles.

Jesus welcomed little kids to come to Him. We don't need to wait until they learn to sit still before we help them do it.

Josh Zello has been married to his best friend, Hannah, for seven years, and they have a four-year-old little girl named Avery. Because of Josh’s passion for early childhood ministry, he has dedicated over fifteen years to serving in preschool ministry, lending his efforts to churches ranging in size from 17,000 attendees to as few as 250. His passion lies in crafting gospel-centered, developmentally appropriate, and thriving preschool ministries. You can find him at JesusLovesPreschoolers.com.

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